I'm the first to admit that patience is definitely not my forte and each time he does it, staying calm and being consistent gets harder and harder. So, the other day, I finally reached my limit. I heard Yardley screaming, I looked over and once again saw Hudson pulling her hair. I went over, immediately removed his hands and reminded him that we use gentle hands and asked him to show Yardley his gentle hands, all of which he was fine with. I comforted Yardley and separated them. Not 3 seconds later, he did it again and this time with a grin on his face!
It just pushed me to the brink; I tugged at his hair and said, "See Hudson- it's hurts!" He looked up at me in disbelief and immediately his eyes welled up with tears. I wanted to die!! He learned nothing from MY outburst and I felt like the world's worst mom.
Later that evening, I
So, I vowed to wake up knowing full well that Hudson was going to pull his usual stunts and to expect them and to deal with them the way I knew was appropriate. I can't even tell you what a difference a simple change in MY attitude made on our day. Instead of me just waiting to yell at Hudson and getting so upset and frustrated when Hudson would try to hurt his sister or unplug the TV or try anything else that usually gets under my skin, I just dealt with it.
I used my calm voice and body language and it worked SO much better then my normal impatient, exasperated way. Our day went so smoothly!
So, if you are going through a tough time with your baby or toddler, try and remember they are NOT doing it to upset you, they don't even have the capability to piss us off
Does your child get under your skin sometimes or am I the only one!?
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